While movies and pop culture may have normalized the not true notion that female orgasm requires penetration, the truth is that you very rarely hear women say they can achieve orgasm just from penetration. Some experts say 70 percent of women rarely or never have orgasms, but men put a premium on it for a few obvious reasons: 1 porn and 2 they want to feel like their penis is a sexual hot rod that will make you speak in tongues and throw your vibrator into a volcano. But some women still claim to be able to have vaginal-only orgasms! So then how can you still have a purely vaginal orgasm without G-spot stimulation?
Struggling to hit the high notes in the bedroom and hoping to reach orgasm at the same time as your other half? Or perhaps you're looking for tips to help your female partner climax when you do? Either way, the fact you're asking this question at all is a good start! Great sex is all about experimentation, communication and fun, and if something isn't quite hitting the spot, the best way to boost your sex life and quadruple your chances of achieving mind-blowing orgasms is trial and error. Therapist, broadcaster and health writer Christine Webber explains how to find the best positions to get you or your female partner coming like a steam train:. If you're a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort — even in a position where it's difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips — then you are very lucky indeed!
Positions to make female orgasm easier during intercourse
But they exist, and with a little awareness and attention, you can get the Os you deserve, from the fireworks-on-display kind to the calm oh-my-gods. When you find yourself missing out on the Big O, there are three likely culprits: expectations, communication, and method. And alongside all of that, experimenting is required.