It is time therefore, that we feel we should broach the subject of Sex. Yes, we said it. The longer a relationship has been going on, the more likely your sex life is to suffer. Breaking news, right? If your sex life is more akin to attending double history on a Friday afternoon at school, than it is 50 Shades of Grey, it might be time to add some surprise. Tell her what you want to do or indeed who you want be and ask her what she wants.