Skip to main content. I am a year-old man and I am married, but I have a big problem. I got married 10 years ago to a beautiful woman. She thought she was pregnant, so we hurried up and got married. It was something we were planning and she missed her period and so thought that she was pregnant, so we decided to get married privately. Afterwards, we discovered that my wife was not pregnant at all.

Our resident agony aunt, Rhona McAuliffe, advises a reader who has fallen for her sister's husband. She orders him around a lot in public and kind of hisses at him if he does something wrong. The rest of my family are afraid to talk to me about anything and walk around on eggshells, ignoring the series of events that led to me leaving work and moving home. Conversations with him are my refuge and he always makes me feel better. He also started opening up to me about his relationship with my sister and we got very real with each other.

Last week when her husband was out of town The kids were with grandma she had been drinking before I got there. She was wearing pj bottom shorts and a tank top with no bra. I didnt think anything of it.. I told her I wish her sister had that problem.

We only ever met at family get-togethers but last year she came to live nearby and the more I saw her, the more I wanted her. It was a dream come true when we finally had sex a couple of weeks ago, after I had popped over to fix her boiler. It feels like sexy fun now but the outcome will almost certainly be disastrous — and wreck your marriage.